Peru Do's

Learn to pronounce names correctly. Good.
Attempt to learn Spanish. Ok.
Work hard without complaint. Context? and without technically makes this a don't rather than a do.
Put family and personal relationships first. Probably critical, but what does that mean? We need something concrete. Give us examples. Give us contexts. What is putting them first?
Maintain control of emotions (especially men). This is interesting to me since we Americans (tech. estado unidenzos, Peru is part of the Americas after all) tend to think of Latinos as being fiery and effusive in their emotion. Which emotions, which contexts, which relationships? What constitutes control? Is a tear a tresspass? Watery eyes? Dancing for glee?
Show generous hospitality. Ok, what is general hospitality? And where did you get these do's?